pokemon-personalities:

an aesthetic that will never go out of style: making others feel loved, needed, and important 

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Colum McCann, Let the Great World Spin

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Colum McCann, Let the Great World Spin

2,011 notes   •   July 30 2014, 05:22 AM   •   VIA   •   SOURCE
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yasgawd:

ok why is wanting attention considered bad? like that’s why i exist honestly

and that’s why people do shit. like 70% of shit. for attention. because you’re human.

so when you tell me i do something for attention you’re god damn right and thanks for giving it to me

What are the signs of emotional abuse?

the-goddamazon:

mental-health-advice:

Abusive Expectations - Makes impossible demands, requires constant attention, and constantly criticizes.

Aggressing - Name calling, accusing, blames, threatens or gives orders, and often disguised as a judgmental “I know best” or “helping” attitude.

Constant Chaos - Deliberately starts arguments with you or others. May treat you well in front of others, but changes when you’re alone.

Rejecting - Refusing to acknowledge a person’s value, worth or presence. Communicating that he or she is useless or inferior or devaluing his or her thoughts and feelings.

Denying - Denies personal needs (especially when need is greatest) with the intent of causing hurt or as punishment. Uses silent treatment as punishment. Denies certain events happened or things that were said. Denies your perceptions, memory and sanity by disallowing any viewpoints other than their own which causes self-doubt, confusion, and loss of self-esteem.

Degrading - Any behavior that diminishes the identity, worth or dignity of the person such as: name-calling, mocking, teasing, insulting, ridiculing,

Emotional Blackmail - Uses guilt, compassion, or fear to get what he or she wants.

Terrorizing - Inducing intense fear or terror in a person, by threats or coercion.

Invalidation - Attempts to distort your perception of the world by refusing to acknowledge your personal reality. Says that your emotions and perceptions aren’t real and shouldn’t be trusted.

Isolating - Reducing or restricting freedom and normal contact with others.

Corrupting - Convincing a person to accept and engage in illegal activities.

Exploiting - Using a person for advantage or profit.

Minimizing - A less extreme form of denial that trivializes something you’ve expressed as unimportant or inconsequential.

Unpredictable Responses - Gets angry and upset in a situation that would normally not warrant a response. You walk around on eggshells to avoid any unnecessary drama over innocent comments you make. Drastic mood swings and outbursts.

Gaslighting -A form of psychological abuse involving the manipulation of situations or events that cause a person to be confused or to doubt his perceptions and memories. Gaslighting causes victims to constantly second-guess themselves and wonder if they’re losing their minds.

Love, Salem

The last one is a killer and very important.

62,510 notes   •   July 30 2014, 04:46 AM   •   VIA   •   SOURCE

gohoneycocolove:

What Really Happened in the Congo: Belgium’s ‘Heart of Darkness’

Leopold famously said when he was forced to hand over the Congo Free State to the Belgian nation: “I will give them my Congo but they have no right to know what I have done there,” and proceeded to burn archives.

http://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/europe/belgium-confronts-its-heart-of-darkness-6151923.html

Did y’all know about this?

27,980 notes   •   July 30 2014, 04:43 AM   •   VIA   •   SOURCE

homoarigato:

Rinko Kikuchi - Watch Your Step

5,448 notes   •   July 30 2014, 04:28 AM   •   VIA   •   SOURCE

Dorothy Dandridge being adorable in the soundie Zoot Suit, c. 1942 [x]

6,097 notes   •   July 30 2014, 04:25 AM   •   VIA   •   SOURCE

evilkneazle:

YOU’RE GONNA MAKE IT, KID.

for those kids who feel like they’re never going to get anywhere in life

and for the adults who still feel stuck after getting dealt a bit of a shit hand